We struggle with technology distractions around here. The kids are obsessed with iPad games, Wii fun and technology overload, much like I was with Atari when I was younger. Maybe much like we are now - constantly grabbing a phone or iPad to "look up something real quick." I struggle to find a balance between letting them have fun, but not overloading on technology every day. I struggle with that myself - balance between raising my kids and not letting my own technology time interfere with what's important.
I'm not much of a resolution maker, but for 2014, I want to be better at being in the moment. Not using technology as an easy way out. Laughing more. Yelling less. Walking away from time wasting technology. Showing my kids what it means to be a happy Mom, who loves the Lord and her family. Being present. Being silly. Playing games. Baking more cookies. Dancing in the kitchen. Celebrating the little things. Living this life.
There's plenty of time for cleaning and putting dishes away and getting laundry done. I'll still be doing that when I'm 55. But these little feet, and these sweet voices - they won't be little and needy when I'm 55. So in 2014 I'm hoping to make time for what really matters - the family that is so precious to me, and work on cutting out the things that don't matter much - the beeping of a phone, the glare of a computer screen, the need to feel connected all.the.time.
Happy New Year! Let's start dancing.
I agree! Techno stuff is driving me batty! A friend told me about a app called "iAllowence" . We don't give our kids allowance but this app lets you set up responsibilities and chores. Then you can chose allowance, stars or time as the rewards for the chores. You can do a individual profile and list for each kid. We are doing stars and then the kids can "cash" those in for minutes on the iPad, kindle, wii or tv. So far so good. They also seem more motivated by getting to check off their chores and getting in to get them done.
Posted by: Suzy | January 02, 2014 at 09:45 AM
Oh goodness! I struggle with this SO MUCH! Particularly because my oldest is super obsessed with computers/video games, but he's only 6 (almost 7). It seems so young to be so into screens. I struggle with letting him do what he loves and pushing him to do what I think 6 year olds should do. And honestly, they are quiet when the screen is on...it's so easy to just let them watch it. Especially with homeschooling, I know we do too much screen time, so it's a goal of mine to change it up a bit here, too. It's such a love/hate relationship for me.
Posted by: Brandi Magee | January 03, 2014 at 01:16 AM
Thanks Suzy! I'll have to check that out - that sounds like a good solution!
My almost 7 year old son is obsessed too, Brandi! I'm so glad to know it's not just me....now to find a solution that works for everyone! :)
Posted by: Megan | January 03, 2014 at 10:21 AM